Internationally-known relationship expert Michael Fiore reveals the REAL reason men lie to women they really do love . . . what it’s EMOTIONALLY like to be a man when a woman starts crying . . . and how to get any man to truly OPEN UP and SHARE everything in his heart with you (even if he’s closed up like Fort Knox now.)
Hey, it’s Mike Fiore . . .
If you’re like most women you’ve probably been lied to by a man . . .
Actually, I can pretty much guarantee it.
As a guy myself, I can tell you that men lie to women all the time . . .
About little things . . .
About big things . . .
About things that don’t seem to matter at all . . .
And a lot of women want to know WHY?
“WHY can’t he just tell me the truth?”
I actually have a whole program around this called:
Here’s a little taste . . .
There’s actually SEVERAL reasons that men lie to women (and some of them are really pretty innocent) . . .
Here’s one that tends to SHOCK a lot of women:
Men lie to women because men are SCARED of women.
Not physically (not usually, though occasionally you hear about a woman going all “Bobbitt” on her man.)
Nope, men are scared of your EMOTIONS.
See, it might sound weird, but emotions are actually harder for guys to deal with and to recover from than they are for women.
According to Dr. John Gottman at the University of Washington (right here in Seattle) women can both enter and recover from extreme emotional states a LOT faster and easier than guys can.
If you think about it, it makes sense.
We’ve all seen a woman burst into tears one moment only to be totally fine 5 minutes later.
But when it comes to emotions, guys are a lot more “fragile.” Gottman says it’s because of evolution.
Guys were evolved to be single-taskers.
To push everything out of their mind except the one thing they’re hunting.
And because of that we’re slower to get into an emotional state and MUCH slower to get back out of it once we get there.
I like to think of it like swimming.
Getting “emotional” for women is a lot like jumping off a dock into a lake.
You get wet, sure. But the dock is right there and just a few seconds later you’re safe and dry . . .
But for guys, “getting emotional” is like getting dropped in the middle of the ocean . . .
Bobbing in the water.
Surrounded by sharks.
With land nowhere in site.
So, what does this have to do with LYING?
From a very young age, guys learn that if we tell you the truth you could FREAK OUT on us . . .
FLOOD us with those scary emotions . . .
And push us out in the “emotion” where it’ll take us hours to recover.
Of course there’s other reasons that guys lie too . . .
I cover those in a LOT of detail my “Secret Survey” program . . .
In this program you’ll learn . . .
- What he really thinks of you (and why a man is so BAD at showing a woman that he loves her.)
- Why he looks at other women, what it MEANS when he looks at another woman and what REALLY goes through his head when he sees a hot girl walking down the street . . .
- Why men cheat . . . and how to drain your man’s desire to cheat on you just by saying a few simple words.
- The dirty truth about a man’s sexual mind . . . why your man WANTS to be objectified and how to give him sexual thrills that will have him addicted to you.
And MUCH more . . .
Everything I’ll teach you is based off of over 600 actual responses to a secret survey I sent out to real men . . .
It’s good stuff.
Possibly the best work I’ve ever done.
If you want to learn more (and I bet you can feel how much you want to know this stuff) go watch this video:
P.S. Make sure you really pay attention to the video. There’s a LOT in there.
P.P.S. Here’s one of my favorite things anyone has ever said about this program.
“I am on lesson 4 and I have to say I was a total skeptic but not anymore! I have received more attention from my boyfriend in last 24 hrs than I have in the last month. Love you! You are brilliant!”
– Connie Stewart