Are you driving yourself crazy trying to reach your man’s heart?
Would you give anything to break through his shell and get him to open up to you?
The secret to cracking through a man’s shell and getting him to see you as having girlfriend or relationship potential is much easier than you would expect…
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You may have a guy you are interested in or you might be dating someone now. But no matter what you do, he just won’t seem to commit to you.
Magazines and society fill your head with all sorts of tricks and gimmicks to prove to a man that he should choose you.
This is completely twisted backwards and sends you down the wrong pathway when trying to get the man that you want to commit fully to you.
Things like leaving notes in his jacket pocket, acting like a challenge, or cooking him dinner and pulling out crazy tricks in bed are all terrible advice that is sabotaging your shot at a solid relationship.
Sure, you can do all of these things and a guy will appreciate it for a bit but any woman who tries hard enough can do these same things just as well if not better. There isn’t much to separate you from someone else.
You can jump through all the hoops you want and still not get your man’s heart. You bend over backwards for him only to be taken for granted or find yourself still shut out.
It’s not about being a challenge or even trying to prove how great you are.
It’s about having your own life and own interests going on that are ultimately going to attract a man to you and make him want to be a part of your life and lock you down.
Believe it or not, but men actually love it when you don’t give up your own life just for them and the sake of the relationship.
This might seem counter-intuitive but it will make sense in a minute.
Let’s look at it this way. You give up your hobbies, your interests, your nights out with friends, and your weekly activities all to dedicate yourself to your guy and the relationship.
Any time you hang out you ask him how his day was, what he’s been up to, what he does when he’s not with you, how things are going in his life, etc. He answers your questions but when he asks about your day and what’s going on in your life you don’t have any answers for him.
You have nothing to contribute to the conversation yourself. There is nothing interesting or new that you bring to the table to hold his interest because you gave up everything that makes you interesting!
Having a relationship has become the most important thing to you and it blinds you to everything else going on in life. It quickly becomes boring to a man because there is nothing new with you.
Having a life outside of a relationship is what attracts and holds a man’s attention and makes him want to be around you.
Ask yourself the following questions:
- What is it that makes you unique?
- What makes you interesting?
- What separates you from any other woman?
You can go ahead and cook, clean, be good in bed, and devote yourself to a man but what’s stopping any other woman from doing the exact same thing?
So many women make the mistake of assuming that the act of having a relationship is what makes them interesting. Having something with a man does not make you interesting. It simply makes you a person who is in a relationship.
Having a man in your life does not make you interesting or intriguing. Millions of women have a man in their life and it doesn’t make them intriguing or even necessarily people you want to talk to or be around.
Get some hobbies and interests going. Go out with your friends and make plans with other people and more importantly stick to them. Don’t give up your plans just to accommodate your guy.
Doing things outside of the relationship will give you the element of interest you will ultimately bring to the table. A man is going to wonder what’s going on with you, what you’re up to, who you’re hanging out with, how your new workshop class went, etc.
It gives you something to talk about and something to contribute other than just physical acts of dedication and jumping through hoops.
However, here’s the key question: even after you have your own hobbies and interests going, will that be enough to make him fall deeply in love with you?”
What I mean by that is – do you think he’ll wake up one morning and realize that he craves, adores, and desires you so intensely that he’d walk to the ends of the earth just to keep you by his side forever?
If he doesn’t feel that kind of desire for you, he might still find you attractive, enjoy spending time with you and say loving things. He might even talk about the future.
The thing is, despite all these things, unless his heart pounds with excitement at the mere thought of you, your relationship is headed for heartbreak. It’ll always feel like you’re desperately chasing his love but never actually have his heart.
If you’ve ever seen relationships where a woman literally does nothing yet her man is bending over backwards to please her, proposes to her and does everything in his power to prove how deeply and completely he loves her… then, you know what it looks like when a man feels the kind of desire for a woman that I’m talking about.
The problem is, no one has ever found a way to predictably make a man feel that kind of intense, uncontrollable desire in his soul to be with you and only you…until now…
The truth is… it’s actually shockingly simple to make your guy so obsessed with you that he’ll dream of only one thing: to be in a world built for two, with him holding you close in a warm comforting embrace.
You’ll see exactly how simple it is in this short video.
The thing is, even though it’s simple, you can only make him feel that kind of intense desire when you know how to push his “emotional hot button.”
The best part is, his emotional hot button penetrates his vulnerable core, melts all his defenses, and makes him desperate to be with you and only you forever.
If you don’t know this, you will forever be dealing with a life of men who lead you on, only to abandon you when you think a real future is on the horizon.
Avoid this loveless fate by watching this short, life changing video here:
With love,
Nick Bastion
